By John MacArthur
Parents, not the kids—and not even the peer groups—are ultimately to blame for the parents’ diminishing influence in our culture. Whenever outside influences shape a child’s character more than the parents, the parents have failed in their duties. It is as simple as that.
Christian Grandfather Magazine 
YES!!!!
Our job is to lovingly guide & direct our offspring.
It is up to them (and God) what happens after that!